The generous will prosper; those who refresh others will themselves be refreshed. Proverbs 11:25 (NLT)
Most translations of the above verse are pretty similar. Sometimes you have an outlier translation of a verse that causes a second look or a deeper thought. This one is pretty straight forward. Other than some translations using gender-neutral rather than gender-specific language (a generous person rather than a generous man) the idea is the same.
But I still think we miss it — even those who’ve memorized it.
The text says that one who is generous will prosper. Yet, I think most of us believe – whether we admit it or not – that the real meaning here is that the prosperous should be generous. While I think the Bible has a lot to say about the responsibility the of the wealthy, that’s not what this verse is addressing.
It’s easy to believe the prosperous should be generous because, quite frankly, most of us don’t see ourselves as prosperous. So until Publisher’s Clearing House arrives with the big check, deep down we believe the verse doesn’t really apply to us.
Once our ship comes in, or the mortgage is paid. Once the kids are out of college and our cars are paid off. Once that promised promotion arrives and our 401k gets rolling, I’ll be prosperous. Until then, though, I really can’t afford to be generous.
You don’t have to be wealthy to be generous.
You don’t have to give stuff away to be generous.
You don’t have to have your act together to be generous.
You don’t have to be an expert to be generous.
You don’t have to wait to be asked to be generous.
You don’t have to wait for a pressing need to be generous.
You don’t need an ESPN Outside the Lines, Oprah interview, or a 60 Minutes tear-jerker volunteer spotlight to be generous.
You can be generous with time and generous with complements. You can be generous with giving credit and generous with grace.
If you live as though prosperity is purely an accumulation of assets, you’ll probably never give anything away, and that’s sad. But it would be more regrettable than that haircut at Great Clips to live as if you can only give gifts of monetary value.
What if you thought of generosity as a willingness to share what you have? What if you decided to share a meal, share space, or share your time. What if you broke out of your comfort zone to share your faith, share in the process, or share your struggles. You can certainly share a laugh and share experiences.
What if, now that Christmas is in the rearview mirror, you decided that now is the season of giving?
And what if you gave this challenge more than just a thought?